So recently I had been hearing a lot of things about Tinder and I decided to check it out. I am already weary about online dating, but so many people are on it, they can't all be wrong. Can they? So I downloaded the app and logged in. Not too happy that it's connected to my facebook, even if it is easier to log in with that. I played the game and swiped left and swiped right, got a few matches and I was kind of surprised with the responses I got. I don't usually cater to the non-black variety, because it is so rare that I appeal to them. Don't get me wrong, I have dipped my toe in the proverbial melting pot that is the Los Angeles dating scene. I always find my way back to my black men.
So anyway, back to the app. I was getting a few matches and messaging back and forth with a couple people, made a date to meet up with an guy for coffee at my favorite Starbucks. I went into it all bright eyed and bushy tailed, and It was cool at first, then he was a total perv. He walked me to the car and attacked my face with his unkempt beard. It was scratchy and awkward so I pushed him off, but then he got all hands-y and grope-y which just made things uncomfortably awkward. Like can you back off and chill for a second. I just met you and we only went for coffee, calm down. That was a disaster, so I went home and deleted him and decided to give it another chance. Made a few more matches and had some good conversations. My next date from this site will be tonight and I have a third one planned for this weekend.
I think this app has the potential for producing some cute memories, some creepy interactions, and definitely funny stories. Many people are comparing it to Grindr but for straight people. I don't know if that's true, but I could totally see it heading that way where it is intended for dating, but turned into something for hook-ups.
I will certainly be back with more stories as I test the waters with this experience.
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